This guide centers oral intimacy as the heart of your experience, blending generous giving and receiving with strategic penetration to create deep connection and powerful shared release.
Lie or sit facing each other, make eye contact, and share a slow, lingering kiss. Take a few deep breaths together and settle into the space, letting your bodies relax and warm up.
Run your hands over each other’s chests, necks, and inner arms while trading soft kisses. Your partner can gently stroke your penis; you can cup and lightly massage their breasts or stroke their outer thighs.
Slide down between their legs. Begin with slow, flat-tongue licks from entrance to clitoris, then focus gentle suction on the clitoris. Listen for their breathing to guide pressure and speed.
While continuing to lick or suck the clitoris, slide one or two fingers inside, curling gently toward the front wall. Match the rhythm of your tongue with the slow, steady motion of your fingers.
Switch so your partner takes your penis into their mouth. They can use a hand at the base and swirl their tongue around the head, varying suction and depth while you relax and enjoy.
Move into 69. Both of you give focused, rhythmic oral attention—use your hands to hold hips or spread thighs for better access. Check in with soft sounds or brief words to confirm what feels best.
Shift so you’re between their legs again. Enter slowly, then pull out and return to licking for 20 seconds before sliding back in—tease them with the alternation of mouth and penetration.
Stay inside, but angle your pelvis so the base of your penis rubs their clitoris with each thrust. They can wrap their legs around you; keep strokes shallow and rhythmic while they grind upward.
Roll over so your partner straddles you. They control depth and angle, rocking their hips while you reach up to stroke their clitoris or hold their hips. Encourage them to lean forward for G-spot pressure.
When either of you nears orgasm, slow or pause movement. Breathe together, kiss, and let the wave subside, then resume at a gentler pace—repeat two or three times to intensify the eventual climax.
Move to doggy style. You thrust from behind while reaching around to circle their clitoris with your fingers. They can lower their chest and arch their back for deeper penetration and G-spot contact.
Pull out and drop down to lick them from behind—long strokes from clitoris to entrance. This brief oral reset keeps arousal high without tipping into orgasm yet.
Lie on your sides, facing the same direction. Enter from behind while both of you relax; the angle naturally stimulates the front wall. Your partner can reach down to touch their own clitoris while you kiss their neck.
Still in spooning, slide a pillow under their top hip to tilt their pelvis. Short, firm thrusts now press directly against the G-spot; keep a steady rhythm while they continue clitoral stimulation.
When you both feel close, freeze movement, kiss, and breathe. Whisper encouragement—“I love feeling you like this”—then ease back into motion once the peak subsides.
Transition back to missionary. Interlace fingers, maintain eye contact, and move in long, smooth strokes. Your partner can wrap their legs higher on your back to deepen the angle.
Withdraw and give 30 seconds of focused oral on the clitoris—fast flicks or steady suction—then slide back inside. The sudden switch often triggers a powerful surge of arousal.
Resume thrusting with gradually increasing speed and depth. Your partner can press their hand against your lower back to guide pressure; keep checking in—“Does this feel good?”—to stay synced.
Switch back to cowgirl. Your partner leans slightly back, grinding their clitoris against your pubic bone while you thrust upward to meet them. They set the exact rhythm that brings them closest to orgasm.
As either of you approaches orgasm, pause again. Share deep kisses, stroke each other’s skin, and enjoy the throbbing closeness without tipping over the edge yet.
Move to doggy style for powerful, rhythmic strokes. You can hold their hips and reach under to rub their clitoris; they can push back to meet each thrust, building intense internal and external stimulation.
Pull out and give dedicated oral—fast, consistent strokes on the clitoris with two fingers inside, curling toward the G-spot. Keep a steady rhythm and listen for their breathing to guide intensity.
Your partner takes you into their mouth again, using hand and tongue together. Let them know what pace feels best—“a little faster” or “just like that”—so you climb together.
Slide back inside in missionary. Both of you move with purpose now—deeper, faster—while maintaining eye contact. Your partner can rub their own clitoris; you can add a finger alongside your penis for extra fullness.
Sync your breathing and count thrusts together if it helps. Keep communication open: short words of encouragement—“I’m so close,” “don’t stop”—to stay perfectly aligned.
When orgasm feels inevitable, lock into the rhythm that feels best for both. Your partner can tighten internal muscles around you; you can maintain steady clitoral pressure with your pubic bone or fingers.
Let go together. Keep moving through the waves—gentle thrusts or grinding—so the contractions ripple through both of you. Hold eye contact or kiss to stay connected in the peak.
Stay inside and shift to the slowest, smallest movements while the aftershocks fade. Whisper appreciation and keep light skin contact—stroking hair, kissing shoulders—to prolong the intimacy.
When you naturally soften, ease out carefully. Keep touching—your partner may enjoy soft circles on their clitoris or inner thighs as the last ripples pass.
Wrap around each other, legs intertwined. Share slow kisses and quiet words about what felt amazing. Let heart rates settle together—this lingering closeness deepens the entire experience.
Tips
- Keep a glass of water nearby—oral and penetration can be thirsty work, and staying hydrated helps everything feel better.
- If either of you needs a quick breather or position change, simply pause, kiss, and resume; there’s no rush and communication keeps pleasure high.
- Aftercare matters: gentle touch, compliments, and cuddling help both partners feel safe, desired, and deeply satisfied long after the final orgasm.