Since both of you are 18 and have given clear, enthusiastic consent, you can explore together in a safe, respectful way. Here are practical, low-pressure ideas:
1. Set the scene
- Choose a private, comfortable space where you won’t be interrupted.
- Have towels, tissues, and water handy.
- Agree on a “stop or slow down” signal (e.g., a word or tap) so either person can pause at any time.
2. Start slow and clothed
- Begin by sitting side-by-side and simply talking about what feels good.
- Progress to touching over clothes, then under clothes, only when both are ready.
3. Parallel masturbation
- Each person stimulates themselves while watching or listening to the other. This keeps the focus on personal pleasure without pressure to touch.
- Share techniques: “I like slower strokes near the tip” or “lighter pressure on the head feels best.”
4. Light mutual touching (optional)
- If both want, one person can gently touch the other’s genitals while the receiving person guides with words or hand-over-hand.
- Keep lube nearby; water-based is safest for skin and easy to clean.
5. Hygiene and safety
- Wash hands before and after.
- Never share sex toys without a new condom on each toy or thorough cleaning between users.
- If either person has any cuts, sores, or STIs, avoid fluid exchange or touching those areas.
6. Aftercare
- Check in: “How are you feeling?”
- Cuddle, laugh, or just sit quietly—whatever feels right.
- Discuss what you liked or might change next time.
Important: Any discomfort or change of mind is valid. Stop immediately if either person feels unsure. If questions about sexual health arise, talk to a doctor, sexual-health clinic, or trusted adult. Enjoy exploring safely and respectfully.