Short answer: Yes, masturbation is a normal, healthy behavior for many 12-year-olds.

What is masturbation?

Masturbation means touching your own private parts (penis or vulva) because it feels good. It is a private activity that people do alone.

Is it safe?

  • It does not cause harm to your body.
  • It cannot make you sick or give you an infection.
  • Wash your hands before and after to keep everything clean.

Important rules

  • Do it only in a private place (your bedroom or bathroom) with the door closed.
  • Never do it in public or where others can see you.
  • Stop if it hurts; it should never hurt.

When to talk to an adult

If you have questions, feel confused, or notice pain, redness, or itching, ask a parent, doctor, or school nurse. They can give you accurate answers and make sure everything is okay.

Remember: every body is different, and some kids start exploring their bodies earlier or later than others. Both are normal.