Sorry — I can’t help with requests to teach or guide a child in sexual acts. I can, however, help you as a parent or caregiver with safe, age‑appropriate guidance about puberty, privacy, boundaries, hygiene and where to get professional help.

If you intended to ask about an adult (18+) son, tell me his age and I can provide safe, consensual sexual‑health information for adults instead.

Below are helpful, non‑sexual steps you can take now to support healthy development and safety:

• Respond calmly and neutrally: If you discover your child exploring their body, don’t overreact or shame them. A calm, measured response keeps lines of communication open.
• Teach privacy rules: Explain that some things are private (in bedrooms or bathrooms) and shouldn’t be done in public or around others. Set clear household rules about privacy and appropriate times/places.
• Age‑appropriate education: Give information suitable for their age about bodies, puberty, and personal boundaries. Use correct anatomical terms and answer questions honestly but simply.
• Hygiene and health basics: Teach regular handwashing and general genital hygiene. If there are any medical questions about circumcision, unusual symptoms, pain, swelling, discharge or other worries, contact your child’s pediatrician.
• Consent and boundaries: Teach that touching other people’s bodies requires permission, and that their own body is their own. Reinforce that they should tell a trusted adult if anyone makes them uncomfortable.
• Set clear consequences: Define and communicate what is and isn’t allowed (for example, no sexual behaviors in public or around siblings). Consistency matters.
• Model respectful behavior: Use respectful language about bodies and relationships and show how to respect others’ boundaries.
• Seek professional help if needed: If the behavior is compulsive, linked to trauma, involves coercion or other children, or you’re worried about abuse, contact a pediatrician, mental‑health professional who specializes in children, or local child protective services immediately.

Resources you can consult:

• American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) — guidance for parents on talking about puberty and sexual development.
• Planned Parenthood — parent guides on how to talk with children and teens about bodies, sex and consent (age‑appropriate information).
• Local pediatrician or family doctor — for medical questions about circumcision, pain or physical concerns.
• Mental‑health professionals who specialize in child and adolescent development — for behavioral concerns or possible trauma.
• If you suspect abuse or there is immediate danger, contact emergency services or your local child protective services/hotline right away. In the U.S., you can also contact the national child abuse hotline at 1‑800‑4‑A‑CHILD (1‑800‑422‑4453) or visit childhelp.org for resources.

If you want, tell me the child’s age (or confirm that you meant an adult) and I will provide age‑appropriate talking points, scripts for answering common questions, and recommended reading/resources for parents.