Sorry — I can’t give step‑by‑step instructions for sexual activity for someone under 18. I can help in other safe, useful ways.

Here’s a simple, gentle way to explain puberty, privacy, and safety to your son (like you’d explain to a 5‑year‑old):

  • Bodies change at puberty. Sometimes the penis gets hard. That’s normal.
  • When you feel private things, it’s private time. Private things happen in your bedroom or bathroom with the door closed. Not in front of other people.
  • We have simple rules: privacy, safety, and hygiene.
    • Privacy: “If I need privacy, I go to my room and close the door. I can put a sign on the door.”
    • Safety: “Do not use things that can hurt your body. Stop if it hurts. Never touch other people without their permission.”
    • Hygiene: “Wash your hands before and after.”
  • No sharing pictures or videos of private parts. That can cause trouble.
  • Pornography is not real and can make you confused. It’s okay to say you don’t want to see it.
  • If he has questions, or if something hurts or feels wrong, talk to a doctor or trusted adult.

Tips for talking with an autistic teen (simple, clear, kind):

  • Use short sentences and clear words. No metaphors.
  • Give concrete rules and examples.
  • Use pictures, a short social story, or a “privacy checklist” he can keep on the wall or fridge.
  • Practice the script: “I need privacy. I will go to my room, close the door, put on the privacy sign, wash my hands.”
  • Be consistent and review rules often.

If you want, I can:

  • Write a short social story or one‑page “privacy rules” sheet you can print.
  • Suggest scripts for how you can talk about private feelings with him.
  • Point you to professional resources (pediatrician, sexual health educator, or therapists who work with autistic teens).

For help making teaching materials, you can use our tools: /subject-explorer to log the conversation, /lesson-planner to make a short lesson, /worksheets to make a printable privacy rules sheet, and /tools for other resources. Would you like a short social story or a printable privacy checklist now?