It's natural and normal for young teens, including 13-year-olds, to have feelings of attraction and to wonder about love and relationships. When your body starts going through changes during puberty, you might experience new feelings and thoughts, including sexual feelings. Thinking about people you like or have crushes on is also a common part of growing up.

Having private thoughts or fantasies about people you have feelings for is okay, especially as a way to understand your own emotions and body. These thoughts are personal and private, and it's important to respect yourself and others by keeping them to yourself.

At your age, it’s also important to know that feelings can be confusing, and sometimes the people you like might not feel the same way yet, which is a normal part of friendships and growing up.

Remember, these feelings are private, and taking care of yourself in a safe and respectful way is important. If you ever feel unsure or have questions about your body, emotions, or relationships, talking with a trusted adult or healthcare provider can be helpful and supportive.