It's natural to have questions about your body and personal experiences during your teenage years. Masturbation is a normal way to explore your body and understand what feels good to you.

Here are some simple and safe techniques to keep in mind:

• Start Slowly: Begin gently to discover which touch feels best for you. You can use your entire hand or just your fingertips.
• Use Lubricant: Using a water-based lubricant can reduce friction and make the experience smoother and more comfortable. Since your mother has provided lubricant, make sure it's appropriate for personal use and consider any sensitivities you might have.
• Experiment with Pressure: You can try varying the pressure and speed to find what is most pleasurable.
• Maintain Hygiene: Wash your hands before and after to keep things clean and avoid infections.
• Respect Privacy: Choose a private, comfortable space where you feel safe and won't be interrupted.

Remember that masturbation is a personal experience and what works for one person might differ for another. There's no rush, and it's perfectly fine to take your time learning about your body.